Root of Struggle

Why do we struggle?

In Eastern philosophy, the root of suffering can be named as our refusal to accept impermanence, wanting life to always go certain way, wanting people to never leave, wanting our careers to keep rising, wanting our bodies to never age.

So when life finally confronts us with reality, when new circumstances challenge our expectations, we struggle.

In Taoism, resisting change is like casting blame on the seasons for their inconsistency.

It sounds absurd indeed, as the rotation of the seasons is the rhythm of nature.

The blooming vibrancy of spring,

The passionate longing of summer,

The colorful surrender of fall,

The tranquil mystery of winter.

Each season has its own unique flavor and beauty.

When a season departs, we simply appreciate its companionship and welcome the next with open arms.

Life is no exception. The transience of life is the most natural thing on earth. It is delusional then, to cling to the wish that everything in life stays constant.

Hardships, setbacks, and heartbreaks are not mere spice of life but the ingredients of life itself.

So when challenges fall upon you, know that it is ok, then gather all your strength and wisdom to meet them.

And when they eventually pass, as they will, be grateful for the burns you endure and love you receive along the way, for they have forged you into someone you otherwise would never be.

Remember, we suffer not from inconstancy, but from expecting it shouldn’t be.